The first decision has actually been made today. That would be that she and I have agreed that it will be an outdoor wedding. Oh, and it will be in the month of May. (Her birthday month) She orginally thought April, but I really wanted to do it in May. I mean, her birthday, our anniversary as time goes by, come on, what a great month it would be for her, right? (Okay, I know I am going to hear the jeers with this next question, but ... isn't May the month where Mother's Day shows up?) I'm thinking it is. I could be wrong. In the event I am not wrong, then tack that on as another big plus for the month of May for my Jenny. (You know, when we have kids)
And I know I am sterile. However, I plan to start going to a doctor to try and see if there is anything I can do to help try and change that. I would love for Jennifer to be the mother of at least one child of mine. More if she wants it and I can produce it. (Fingers crossed) And if not, she said adoption works for her. Still, I would love to be able to give that to her.
Anyhow, May for the wedding and outdoors with lots and lots of flowers. Oh, I almost forgot, she also wants it to be small. Just family and only a few very close friends. She wants to keep it as close to fifty as possible. (Or less) That list will be put together in the upcoming weeks then dwindled down I'm sure.
Okay, recap then of what has been resolved:
1) Small wedding
2) Outdoors W/lots of flowers
3) Month of May 2013
Just a peek at some other upcoming decisions:
Photography, Cater, gown, rings, wedding party, cake, limo, guest list, Tuxedo's, - I'm sure I am missing a few things but I am just winging it right now. So stay tuned. I will report again when we have made a final decision on something, okay?
I am so excited!